The power of love,romance and dating

In this day and age,for the most part.Romance,dating and marriage are touchy subjects.Yup that is right,people forget about love,passion and romance getting tied up in their own lives.Being busy all the time is good for the wallet and good for..um not much more.Now don't get me wrong some people can live a happy and graceful life being single and alone.But for the most part,we just got to have someone who is there for us emotionally connected.The shitty thing now a days is so many people just settle for what they got and forget love is not an entanglement of cold feelings.It is supposed to make you crave the smell,beauty,and sensual feeling of having someone close.With the fast paced world we live in,with time cut so short.I wonder how most people handle it.I myself can handle quiet time and alone time.But touch is a huge fgactor for our brains and heart.There is such little devoted love now due to social media,everyone wants to fuck everyone or upgrade weekly to someone better.There are hardly any morals now when it comes to relationships.Me I like to say I am a romantic and sweet guy.Yes of course I will talk myself up.When I hear people compliment another,sometimes I wonder why the receiver never punched the talker in the face.Saying shit like hey hunny,hey dollface,hello hotty or hey baby you sexy.What kind of women or man takes those easy unless you like being viewed as a chunk of meat.Words like your beautiful,you look very captivating or stunning are words that are meaningful and don't just make a comment all about sex.The world is so desperate for genuine people,that sometimes a smile can lead to the wrong impression of what your intent is.People when they do meet someone,they get attached so quickly and broken so soon.Romance needs to be kept alive.In another 10-15 years it is gonna be so rare and so many people will be miserable fucks.At 41 I have seen alot of shit in life that has been hurtful,hateful and just plain garbage situations.I notice alot of these moody pricks and bitches out there are lonely as a turd in a football field.Most women I know are always spewing off there are no decent guys out there.Well let me say this,alot of those guys are friend zoned before there dicks even get to think about getting wet.You just need to stop going to bars,pubs and being friend fuckers I call them.Rare cases of bar relationships fill the void for life.Other then that they are just a short fix to being lonely and having hot sex.Don't get me wrong I love my orgasms,boy do I ever.But I have never been one for short fused fun and one night stands.Morals are morals and banging every crosseyed bird and fish out there is not a way to passion but a way to stretch you out for the moment.Same with dating friends of friends,short lived and always backfire.Now back to being romantic,I am not to sure what the fuck men and women think in this century.Ok being a moody douche is one thing,but trying to curb your appetite for need being like that will not go far.First dates were all about getting to know someone and progressing from there.Now omfg it is about banging and banging.We went from good night kisses on the door step to blow jobs and fucking.To me,basing your new found love just on sex is bound for a disaster sooner then later.Fills the need but not the gap.Hell I rather just flick my bean or play with myself half the time.Saves the headache.Now it is,text them well waiting out front instead of bringing flowers or candy to the door,like wtf is that.For the most part of life you can see out there that alot of people have what they think is the hottest and most capable mind to achieve a long term relationship.BUT...they think they are either a gift to women or women thinking they are a gift to men.The way I look at it is if you are that girfted..Why you so damn lonely,yup that is right.So many people think they are better then the other.If you go into a date or relationship thinking your better then the other one.Well you just fucked that up hugely.We all need to have an open mind when meeting new people that could wake our vitals up.Being materialistic overboard really can fuck your chances so bad for that second date.I hear alot of women that say they feel cheap that they slept with there date.WELL DON'T DAMN IT.So many afraid that if they dont sleep with someone the first date.They wont get another one.Whoop de fucking doo.Why feel cheap over society judgement,you can have a blast without your v-jay touching the wanker while out for dinner.Another thing is the dinner and movie thing.It is like totally obsolete now,now it is lets go to the bar or pub for beer and wings.More like,lets get you buzzed or drunk and go bump the uglies.See myself I would not pick my future partner if they were willing to bump on the first night.I think a picnic in the park,some flowers and some little park games is more bonding for a first date.I dont think grilling your date like a job interview is great either.Going to a ball game or beach,climbing,them are dates.Romance only comes in the words of lets fuck now.Which to me is very sad.Trying to teach my daughters morals for themselves and to meet a decent man that only cares about them and not 50 other women.Hard being applications like Tinder and snap chat are like small little come fuck me soft porn sites.Saying sweet things to one another happen in first few dates and then dwindle down to not a damn thing.That is why ladies and gents you should hold off.If you let him rise or let her engines roar.That makes even the strongest not respect you.Back to morals,see I think the interent in ways it can be good to learn about someone a great deal.But at the same time can be a back fire at most.Beautiful,stunning,handsome,captivating,gorgeous and sexy can bring out the best smiles in folks.But such rarely heard,some men and women when they are complimented with such kind and proper compliments take it out of context and think wrongly.Relationships if they are going through a rough patch.It is a open gate to predators to move in and try to tap what is not theirs.And only the weak will crumble.We all will have rough patches in life with our partners and that is why kindness,love,laughter and communication is so very much needed and important.Playing with each other and making new memories,making your partner try things your interested in.Great ways to keep things alive.We all need that feeling of being loved,but the feeling of short lived love is not the answer.Keep your romance up and alive whether you be a man or women.Alway keep a open mind to trying new things and exploring each other in so many ways besides just fucking.Will help you expand to a greater depth of your relationship.Make love,be kinky,hold hands,kiss the forehead.I will not put things into your head on what you should be doing to keep love and passion alive.What I will say it is common sense if you want someone long term in life.Work with each other,touch,caress and kiss,play,laugh and communicate.Sounds like the perfect way to make something happen to me.I wish all of you the best in life with love..even you grumpy,moody fucks.All will fall in place eventually.Never rush love as it will fall apart sonner then you think.

Rudi Jensen