Forgetful Sorrows of love

Love can be the hardest and most challenging things to master or overcome.Sometimes we feel we are full of love until we look into ourselves and how we show it.Marriages and long term relationships are the hardest.Leaves the most unanswered questions in our life.Through our love life we find it will always have sorrows some where along the line.Do we love right? Do we love our spouse right? Do we love ourselves? Am I just comfortable cause I dont wanna be alone? Sometimes we love for all the wrong reasons,sometimes we can't stand our partners. But we're so comfortable with them cuz we've been with them so long we just can't find it in us to leave because of the connection has been there so long.Sometimes our signals we give our partners are the wrong ones to give.Deep down the majority of couples super duper love each other and deserve each other.But love wrong,some are so self absorbed,theycan never admit when wrong.Love can't always only have one person to apologize when time comes.Has to be both to admit fault or otherwise fading,cheating,hatred come along..You just don't have a dog and tie it to a chain and give it no love, affection or food.Dog gonna hate you or bite you. Same thing when attraction comes into play. We get so comfortable with our spouses our wives and husbands. We all forget what it was like when we met. We dressed up for each other,there was foreplay in the relationship,there was wrestling,there was laughter.Attraction is so much of your relationship.Joggers and tied up hair is ok sometimes,but being sexy and dressing up for your partner.Shows so much...ummm like you give a fuck.Guys shaving and dressing up and cooking some dinner.It is stuff like this that is such a forgotten trait in our relationships.Dates,walks,cuddling on the couch.Much needed things needed to make things not so forgetful.If you made it past a 10 year mark.You should consider the love you have.Is some of the purest and most powerful around.As we get older and forget,we need to spice up things.Laziness kills so many relationships a year,cell phones kills thousands of relationships yearly.There is a time to be on and off them.Not all your time with a partner should be devoted to social media or video games and cell games.The sex game seems to be a thing of give and don't.Maybe I won't to get even.Now let me say this,for you men and women that like to play hold back,lay there,don't touch your partner or ignore them.Why be with them,only gonna leave to a break up,separation,cheating or divorce.And for the most a whole lot of arguing.To me in order is so important to a relationship or any level..

#1-Communication & commitment

#2-Laughter and fun

#3-Sex

These are must haves,we need to be sweet,sexy,romantic,funny,energetic and feel alive with our partners.When we lose this,we risk losing each other.When we do start to lose them we only then realize that we should of did more.Stress can destroy so much also,thing is....It is never by purpose.Shit just builds up and your head always has stuff on the go.Well ask your partner to brain storm and help you out.Just because your stressed,does not mean falling away from your spouse is best idea.That is why they are there.Never forget with all lifes changes and stress that comes in and out.Never forget your partner or what you have.Saying I love you daily with a hug and kiss.Well thay says it all.We need to show our spouses we love them.Otherwise they are nothing but a forgetful sorrow.and for the most part,we all need love and to be wanted and cherished by someone.Yes our partners,so spice it up,cook a dinner,dress up,have a mini picnic.Keep the passion and strength high and above all.We can not have love in our loves and expect it to stay if we forget how to talk,touch,play,have sex,make love.Otherwise just another forgetful sorrow of life.

Be groovy

Be stellar

and always be you.

Rudi Jensen