Dead beat parents/game playing parents

So this blog is in two split sections,This is a very close to home and touchy subject for me and many others out there.

Game playing parent

So really no where to start on this subject. i sure am not very nice to these two subjects as I am huge family guy. As the title says dead beat parents and game playing parents. So I will start with the game playing parents. KIDS ARE NOT WEAPONS YOU FUCKING IDIOTS. This is a panademic with parents men and women. I really hate to say it,but happens most when the mom has the child. Yes men do it too,but in most cases it is the women. So I have a different understanding as a parent then some.Child support is a huge thing to most parents and yes I agree to some degree. But I strongly disagree about keeping a kid away from the other parent because they do not pay. Yes it is bullshit and careless a little,so first off some payments of child support is just greedy fucking parents wanting to sit on their asses while the ex pays. To me it DOES NOT MAKE A PARENT BAD BECAUSE THEY DONT PAY. Yes irresponsible in ways. But does not mean they cannot be a good parent in other ways. For all you low class fuckers that pull this shit. Fuck you is some of what I got to say. Yes I know you struggle and need the money. Go get a fucking job. Some people just cant afford it. But taking away a parents rights because of it. I will battle with any man or women on the effects it has on the kids or the parent,when it come to them.I could not give a fucking rats ass who tries to argue about someone not paying. It is utter and complete bullshit,they is no reason for it. When a child is asked by thier friends why they dont see mom or dad. And they answer because mom/dad says I cant cause they dont pay or vise versa. Makes that kid feel bad,look bad and the parent looks like a money grabbing slime ball. So fucking wrong,I have 5 kids and if my women,wife,girlfriend could not pay. No fucking way does that stop them from being mom. Yes part of being a parent is to help support. But again does not make them a bad seed for the child. Playing the child support game,to me you are no better then some low life drug addict looking for a scam. Ouch hey,well tuff it out.Money grabs over kids is absolutely disgusting aspect and you should not be the gaurdian.To me this is a touchy subject. I had my ex do it to me with my oldest child. Like fuck I was a bad seed at all in any sense. But I was broke as fuck. But she played with that and took my girl away for 2 years. I was not broke for 2 years. She just fucked off. So wanting that choice and not being able to have it.I was a complete disaster and a walking ticking time bomb. Well all you fucking game playing losers. Well it effects the child,get over it that the break up is over. This trying to screw someone over for that child. Act your bloody age,you wanted to have the child with your spouse in the first place and they were perfectly fine to want them to be mommy or daddy then.You cant evenn call them a cunt,as they are not as deep or warm as one. But now you can make money. Boom the games start. Fuck off I say you twats. Bullshit and those doing this. You low life's know it is wrong but like to hold the power to do this.Litterally I will fight till I am blue in the face over money grabs for kids. I will end this portion here as my blood is heating up over this subject and I still got to get heated over deadbeats. 

Dead beat parents

So first off,your a loser to not see your child,some of the lowest of the low. Bottom feeders are not even that low. How can you live with yourself. I cant even leave town for a week without having emotional crunches missing my kids. So for starters,my first kid was kept from me from many years on and off. What that did to me as a whole,was crazy emotions.Crying,spazzing,depression,break downs daily,weekly. So unless you some cold ass freezer box bitch/asshole and have no feelings.HOW ? WHY ? could you not see them.So many people men and women I hear many stories. Stories where parents live 5 mins away and refuse too see the kids. Yes I understand some people pull away cause the spouse is just a loose fucking cannon,they cant be around them. To me,this is still no fucking excuse in any way at all. Some people say they are ashamed they cant pay. So they just dont go see them.Like WTF,complete useless bullshit of a excuse. Alot of ex spouse's just want the mom/dad in the kids life. To make the choice on your own not to see your beautiful little girl/boy. Yes I will say it to anyones face. YOUR A COMPLETE FUCKING DEAD BEAT. Some people call a parent who does not pay a dead beat,to me it is the parent who does not connect with thier child makes you a dead beat. When you wake up daily knowing you have a creation made from your blood line and you just act like it is not there. First off,it is not a IT,. It is YOUR CHILD. I listen to men and women almost brag they dont see their kids and love the spare time. I tell you those parents heear it verbally from me. You can bet your ass it is not nice. But at the same time I am plotting in my head numerous throat punches from all angles. Wrong thing to do in front of me cause I am a complete utter asshole to those and no hold barred when I speak to them. It is not cool,not better for situation or anything. Just completely WRONG. How can you go from wanting a child together and then to not.No matter how my kid was born,disabled,medical problems through the roof,one arm or one leg. I still wanna see them. Some dead beats is because they are addicts and cannot be trusted or fit to parent. Understandable as addictions can destroy so much with people. Still no excuse,time for help. I watch some of these dead beats buying all this fancy shit and bragging while the kids goes without. Bullshit in so many ways,a new truck dont make your kid love you or want you more.Most kids just want the bonding and both parents. I know some parents that dont see the kids but shower them with gifts weekly. Well sorry to say,BUT YOUR A FUCKING DEAD BEAT STILL DOING THAT. No excuse when you have a child born because you never shot into a latex condom or her belly. You dont want a kid,live with "why waste it when you can taste it theory. I know bad metephor. But true,blow your load somewhere else. So again quite a few just avoid the kid because of the ex crazy mofo. Well still no excuse,lots of ways through court to see your kid and have no contact what so ever wwith the ex. This problem is leading the world in unguided children because the acts of break ups and fueds. Sad fucking thing is,the dead beat is not thinking effects on the child or the the one with custody is just a greedy fuck. GET OVER THE BREAK UPS AND QUIT USING KIDS AS WEAPONS. Shit is happening more and more in life. Before I use to think it was just people with shitty paths. But some of the most respectable people I know play mind games over custody and child support. All in all when the child gets older,both situations back fire on both parents eventually.i fought hard for 5 years and got custody of mine.I never wanted her to grow up knowing I never tried to get her. I lived of of ichiban and spagetti for years paying lawyers.My girlfriend,the women I ended up marrying later on in life. She stuck through it all and we were so broke,lawyers are not fucking cheap. To have a on my conscience that I sat back and did fuck all. I would be a dead beat then.I never wanted that title. My father and mother are both dead beats still to this day with my children and me. I never wanted my kids to see that but they do and understand. Some people are just that way and are colder then a freezer box. All in all I hope that some of you that read this and play the game of you cant see because of money. To see it is terrible for kids and rest of parties involved. As for the dead beats,wow I can only say fucking loser. And I am sorry if you all reading think this is wrong. Addictions to me is not a dead beat but a addiction problem that most of time can be fixed. Addiction takes alot of some peoples thoughts and consumes every thought besides when next fix is. Once addiction is gone,if they dont see the kid,of course a dead beat. Anyway people wake the fuck up and quit fucking having kids or grow the fuck up. Stop the hatred game,oh I hate you fucker bullshit. So now I am taking your kid away. You need to be beat the fuck up. Grow up and set your kids on right path and set the bar for when the kids are older. KIDS ARE WAY MORE IMPORTANT THEN YOUR HATRED FOR EACH OTHER. Parent the way parents should without the grudges.

Be groovy,

Be stellar 

and always 

be YOU.

Rudi Jensen