Bashing ex's and reputation break ups

This post was inspired by the spiraling effects over the years watching this shit destroy lives. I have contemplated writing this for a year. Now this is going on with a very good friend and now it is time to come out and call out the losers that do this. I will jump around in this article,so pay attention. I will refer to a friend,but also talk about everyone as a whole.If that is a problem. I dont care. Be groovy still and find something else to read....

So as I sit here writing this,some poor mother fucker is getting destroyed as I type. So to explain before I go further. I am writing this as it amazes me for adults to be destroying one's reputation apon a break ups at such a old age. Now let me say this,I think anyone doing this is just a tad bit of a fucking whack job and piece of shit. Like literally a hunk of long runny shit. So with so many break ups happening through out the year we hear of this often. Whether it is over hearing it,or we have that basher as a friend. Now this happens to both men and women and for so many reasons. Now when we break up,we normally if it was a bad break up just wanna get the fuck out of there. So for some reason the maturity level of some fucking people during break ups is just too far gone with constant bullshit. Assholes be saying she a whore and fucks the town. Or dirty money grabber,well whatever someone fucked 10 people. Call the fucking army now. So yes cheating sucks bad,but not the end of the world,may seem that way...but hell no. Now at my age I have seen this way too many times in life with bashing. What disturbs me most is the fucking shit people spew out of their cake holes. Now yes you and Johnny broke up.Why be a dooche bag trying to ruin his reputation.All break ups are painful no matter if you admit it or not. But to start with some things,when you live together you buy shit together. Now why in the fuck when you break up,did you need everything.YOU FUCKING DONT YOU GREEDY BITCH/ASSHOLE.So this will likely go on for years to come.I have a friend going through some shit with some crazy ass broad,ok they broke up,whip dee fucking doo.Now it is over you feel the need to not only fuck around by taking the ball to a new level trying to claim everything as yours.I know right.Greedy little bitch.Now there is always 2 sides to every story,myself I never take a side at first unless the bashing and bullshit starts.So one of my great friends has had this women.Take almost everything asset wise(even fucking groceries and baking supplies)like wtfd...but never stole his pride. At times you can see it has some effect on him.But the matter is he has stayed the same.Never bashed her to us friends at all.But she is not only taking the shit out of house after the fact,but now trying to destroy his name and integrity. But because a lease was involved and she moved out.Daddy had to try to play fucking hero,but more or less played the evil fucktard fucker father in law.Always entering premises and removing shit.So fucking low. So dont get me wrong I will protect my kids to death. BUT..my kid wants to be the said person in this portion and start bullshit that is not needed. Well they be on their own. No need to drag parents in when we are well above legal age to handle our problems. AT ALL. So my good friend let all this shit happen to just be rid of her. Well I must say as the world turns,so do crazies and fucktards.She is one of the biggest I have met. So anyway he just wanted her out of his life. Well as I say the world turns and the crazies come.Well because he just ignored her. Well now the shit storm has come and it is some smelly as shit.So now he is a cronic abuser,mentally and physically her over so many said years <BECAUSE YOU HATE YOUR EX,NO REASON TO LOW BALL>. Now like come the fuck on you stupid ass broad. Even a fucking meth head would not be abused for that long without going. Making up shit to get attention is why this article is in cue. Always 2 stories right. Well I will always listen to both. BUT,if one is just constantly bashing one and starting shit. Like come on . Everytime I seen them,Shit there was so much chemistry,so like they say.Ignore a person enough and they will go nuts and try to destroy you or stalk you. So like in many cases in this world.Being broken hearted can cause crazy like psychotic episodes. Or well in this case with my bro,this crazy been going harsh for 4 months now. Of course we all know there was a little problem towards the end. But the accusations have reached the point where now she is losing friends and trying even harder to ruin this poor man. So I could tell all that to hang in there and be the better one. That would make me a douche. Well at some point in your head you start wanting to plot the destruction of the other person and plot thier death or push them off a cliff. So not much I can say about hanging in there. I know I have been there and wanted to strangle the bitch like you ring out a wet rag. So I know this not easy task.But also in many cases deep down the one trying to destroy one's rep. Seems there has some jealousy in there that the other is doing well. So I would say my friend is doing well but a little broken inside. He may not admit or straight out deny. But it hurts like a mother fucker. Just knowing what you thought was love.Turned out to be such a harsh thing towards the end and a bloody nightmare now. So trying to get rid of this ex we all have when they bash. LIE ALL YOU WANT,we all have had somewhere in our life a bad ass break up. Avoiding people is easy,but avoiding all not because your ashamed to talk about it.But so tired of having defend yourselves over rubbish lies. There is not only distruction to said person's mind. But then some people will doubt if you did said things or not. Too me no body really knows what goes on behind closed doors. But how people are in public and interact with others is a sure way to tell. So friends and family get to see some. All I ever seen was ass kissing and slaving form my good friend. So that being said I was still friends with both until the bashing started. Now dont get me wrong there will always be the He/She was a bitch/asshole or cheated on me. Alright those are whatevers. Anything behind that point where reputations,a person's integrity is overwhelmed,accusations that are false and can cause a catastrophy of future events. You should be fucking zapped all over and pushed dwon the fucking stairs with a bunch of tacks he he ouch..Anyway. So not cool,violence is violence. But to say said things and have not thought about the consequences that could come over said false pretences. Well fuck me with a Tonka truck. That hurts anyone. So morel of all this happens more and more yearly by men and women. I will not say who does it more. Because I hear from both sides the same. I do know that there is nothing on earth that is so slimmy,inconsiderate and cold,mean or plain fucking nuts. That compares to a person trying to destroy anothers name and reputation over being mad or hurt. Now alot of you women out there that write me about how this guy and that guy said you were a ho,whore,slutty or the town bike. You all have said so much worse about what you have said back and neither is right. But calling each other names after a break up. Seems better then bringing family and friends into itwith bullshit accusations. No matter what,most friends and family gonna side with you anyway. That is not fucking fair,mom,dad,Jenny,Phil,Bill or Tanya was not fucking you both or living under the roof. So fuck off with the little high school shit. We cant bring family in all the time,not saying at times we should not. But at most it is no one's business but the two of you. WE ARE ADULTS ARE WE NOT..Now I know alot of you turn into man hating or women hating gems we will call you after. Always knocking the opposite sex referring every man or women is the same.If you keep meeting fucking whackos. Well fuck me,stay out of bars,crack houses,hookers and male hounding whores. When your hurt,it hurts no doubt about that. But you think there will ever be closure if you can't shut your cake eater and move on. Closure comes from accepting and moving forward. No fucking shit it sucks to be alone,hurt or mad as fuck plotting revenge. But really life is life. You dont just go pick strawberries and put them in pail and expect them all to be perfect when you dump them out at home. Kinda like hearing someone has a small dick and you vision it really is the size of a tic tac. Not really the truth. Kinda like people and life. You will always meet shitty people.If everyone was perfect and positive. It would actually make the world worse off then it is with fucked up people now.Now advice for friends and family out there that has been going through or had to with you listening to break up madness. Never support friends,kids or relatives when you know they fucking making shit stretched out. But some of you just dont seem to leave high school or grade school. Then we got having a heart on for all guys or girls. Did you think spreading hate and then saying how lonely you are. Think that is attractive. Ummm NOPE,maybe for a fuck. But nobody gonna look and say that is boyfriend or girlfriend material. They gonna think they in for a nightmare listening to you bash the last. So back to my poor friend,thing is one of my other friends dated this nut case. I heard stories long before I knew the said friend referred in this piece. So something is not right there with that. Of course I believe one friend cause my 15 year old could beat him up. So i know she would of,oh yah he said that few times..ha ha poor guy too. He was smart and now avoids at all costs. Now you and I have heard this shit all the time from bashers.I just want them out of my life,but continue to bring up other person,bash,or harass.             SHUT THE FUCK UP AND MOVE ON....But noooo to easy for a broken heart to break another to make them feel better. But I respect and highly respect all who can sit and not respond while the nut case or fucking crazies continue. Respect on every level. Myself holy fuck this shit ruined me for that longest time with a nut case. Always said so many things to keep shit going. Your asking yourself a old school guy like him (ME) must of wanted to get be rid of her.Of course I fucking did and almost. So I say fuck yah I did. Bought a shovel,found a free burial plot in the woods. But I sat instead and watched her go frigging nuts ignoring her for years .To this day she is a messed up broad full of prescription meds to help her out from being nuts. pheww almost had me convinced I was nuts. Dont get me wrong back then I was tad twisted,cross me and I would... you know...Every boyfriend was always bad and was accused of every thing. I was even accused of having broken golf clubs under my pillow to sleep,lol.I know fucking funny. I sleep with my arm under my pillow so yes would of been uncomfortable as fuck. So this one convinced my friends(not real ones) my family(which I still dont talk with some over it) can only forgive and forget so much. I built my life and built it well,hers is still fucked moving around all the time and still fucking men over across Canada. All in all we learn about how strong we can be in these situations. Some will snap,to me all you have in life is your name. Tarnish it and it can ruin you,whether it be work,family or friendships. We want to always leave foot steps of who we are. Those foot steps help keep us sane and others will always remain the same apon hearing rubbish. So morel of it all.If your done with someone,move over,move on and grow up. Accept the fact it is done,the pain can be healed,the broken heart will heal by you or someone special will come along. Keep your heads up and know if you did nothing wrong. No reason to defend yourselves to redeem anything. I like to tell people,if you have did nothing wrong.   DON'T SAY FUCKING SORRY..That is like giving in making you look guilty. People will always be people. The interesting part about humans,is that fact not only are we built in different colors,shapes and sizes. But like a car or a computer. You have cheap ones and good ones.Not all will pick a good one. Just because you go to buy a house and the grass out front is green. Sure the fuck dont mean the house is clean. Pick and choose wisely I could say.But then I would get hate mail cause you got a bad one. So what I will say is,people are hard wired like a computer. At any given time no matter how perfect you are.You could twitch and ka fucking boom all hell breaks loose. So you dont get what you get. Some people just have a trigger.THERE IS NO WAY TO AVOID THAT AT ALL.All we can do is hope for that special someone who we can twitch together with.Stay safe,dont make babies unless your sure,if you notice you rpartner slipping away.Sneak them meds...<just kidding.Have a stellar prowling season or life time...xoxo

Rudi Jensen

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