Chasing

Sometimes in life,we chase the future love of our lives. Damn well knowing we should not have to. But we do it and pursue them as much as possible til we have that love. Now chasing is ok for the majority of the time. But once you have the love.You should no longer chase,if love is present. Of course maintain it and keep the glow flowing. It will be happy and filled moments with lots of fun,memories and more. But sometimes we finding ourselves loving a empty soul. Loving someone and them not loving back. It is hard to know,especially in this day and age. All about sex and comfort,being shacked up with someone over reasons besides building a future together. Seem pointless but there is alot of it going on around us.. Never forget once you have someone. You need to keep their interest sharp and the mood alive. The essence of the feeling we get when we are head over heals and then lose that. Bares great pain and often regret trying to figure out where things went wrong. But in fact the voice has alot to do with this,you need to speak up. Cause if your always chasing and recieving nothing. Good chance someone is hurt or has lost that love for you that way. We can love someone still but not wanna be with them. That is life and the way love goes,can change weekly with feelings. Depending on the circumstances of your life. But when one is trying and one is not. Fuck all you can do but go. Once you take the alone time and fun,love,romance,communication out of your relationship. Not really that much left for you both.. Right? The chasing can go on forever when it should not,it is really simple. You either want your partner or you dont. Nothing like being sidelined while someone waits for days,months,years to talk to you or touch you or wanna have fun. Those are red flags that should make you realize. Chasing is getting you nowhere and you should think about moving on. I say this to both,the chaser and the take everything away person. Cause once you take everything out of that relationship. What makes you think someone else is not gonna fill your shoes and start giving to your man\women what you took away. You SHOULD ALWAYS BE STRAIGHT UP.  Making someone chase you and then forget they exist,hatred and boredom go a long way. But should not just drag a relationship down because of it. If it is over,let it be over. Chasers you can only chase so long before it rips you apart inside wondering when love will appear and how long it will last. Never understood how someone can say they love someone and want to be with them. But uttterly ignorre,avoid,cut communication,touch,fun and more. Baffles me still to this day. Stop chasing and feeding them.

Rudi Jensen