The do's and don'ts on relationships Part #1

You ever been in one of those relationships or around one. Where you have to chase your partner for everything. Whether it be sexual,love,touch,communication or special moments period.....See with relationships you supposed to make each other feel beautiful,wanted,bringing laughter and play to each other. Tears of joy and years of warmth. Of course no relationship is perfect,but no relationship should have chasing. But seems so many now a days is all about chasing. I say once you got it,keep it. Be the best lover you can. But in no means I think chasing is acceptable. Actions really do seriously make a difference when obvious words are broken. See the thing I have learned is,how much pain one can achieve inside if they really are in love and spiraling emotions from great to bad. Now,one can also achieve alot of hate over time in a relationship as well. But when the hate takes over your love in obvious ways. Time to figure out shit and pick up and do something about it or fuck off and quit wasting each others time. In reality many relationships yearly are broken,destroyed and created. Some for the very wrong reasons and some because someone was stuborn and would not budge. See to me holding out on your partner for anything,love,touch,emotions,play and etc. To me is like a form of bullying and game playing. Now we all have our own opinions this is mine. One should not use the mind,heart and your bits and bites as a weapon. "Oh hunny,I think I love you today. I am not gonna touch you back,but lets have sex" WTF. Because your mad at your partner,it is so wrong to hold back your love or turn it off. Now we all have moments where you avoid each other. But stopping the love is complete bullshit..So I have never been a fan of of using the parts,mind or heart as a weapon. I think men and women should always encourage their partners for love making where both touch each other,compliments need to be a part of a relationship. Keeping your lover attracted to you is a must,cant just get someone and then stop taking care of yourself. It is not always about sex,but the human touch and voice can sooth and bring so many positive moments..Attraction is attraction and yes folks that is how it works. I would love to tell you all that iif you let yourself go and it be ok,well it is not. And if they love you they will except you the way you are shit. Well whatever take it how it is,it is reality on how people are. Not everyone wants to watch their partner get lazy and wear baggy clothes or drink beer all day and night on couch scratching really nothing. Facts.... We need to keep our partners interested in so many ways. You have to wanna turn your partner on,not only let them come on to you .That is so fucking harsh to do nothing and gonna back fire sooner then you think. Even a sucker will just say fuck it.. Special things have to be there also,special never ever means fancy gifts. You need to remind your partner why you love them,why they are special to you. Living in silence will back fire everytime.. Keep close with each other and never let others break the bond or love.. Keep the do's and dont's close to mind. Love hard and love right. Dont stray and dont hold back.Use your voice to succeed a happy relationship not a one sided one..Rudi Jensen

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and Love