Stop worrying about others not progressing a fitlife

So no easy way to say it.But most family,friend and peer in general support.For what your wanting to do in life to change our bodies.Is ZILCH...Many of us have altered,pushed,conquered,

cried,fought,gave up and so much

more because of lack support. I try to teach people that you need a fuck you attitude to push in life.You need NEVER worry about haters and jealousy.Where does that get us.Down is where it gets us.Some people think that you should not have a fuck you attitude towards our haters and jealousy mini popppers.But like really? Wtf would anyone wanna worry about someone non supportive ,negative, jealous or hatin while you are bettering yourself. To me if they have insecurities on their bodies and Fitness. I am more than welcome to help offer and push them.But they have to want it.We all are ready at some point.But to harass,bully,annoy in process is no good. But when they hatin and the jealousy does not stop. Fuck them I don't care how much insecurities,jealousy or hatred you have. That is now your problem it is not my problem. You wanna watch from your cell phone or t.v and criticize,go right ahead. Most of us that work out have support in our fitness groups and community. Seems to be enough but not. We are always wishing that our family and friends will be there. Well if they're not into the gym they're never going to be.But my sweat,mental game,crying,muscle soreness is my struggle.If no one wants to be there to my accomplishments.It may hurt some for a bit,but it is only fuel for me to do better.Is a way to become a warrior,not only on the outside.But deep down to our souls.The scars on my hands,my mind and heart.That is what fuels me,but fuels others hate and jealousy.I cant stress enough in life that people need to back off worrying about some punk ass hater or jealousy problem.Let it fuel you and dont look back. Nobody in life should ever have to beg for a support system,love or friendship..But seems we need to alot.I do this for me like most others.Thing is, there is always some cock block motherfucker whether it be a male or female. Going to tell you that you should have to put up with the haters and the jealousy and feel sorry for them and so on and so on. Fuck that shit we don't need to think like that. Of course no doubt friends and family support is very awesome and much needed for rough patches. But we shouldn't have to chase after nobody for it or feel sorry for them for not doing what we're doing. That just seems a little bit off that were hated and people are jealous.But we should feel sorry for them because they don't want to get off their ass. And no way at all that's fair to anybody working her ass off. People need to worry more about themselves than others and stop thinking and worrying about what other people have to say or are doing. Especially when you're living a healthy and fit lifestyle, lifestyle you chose to live... Someone else's insecurities should not be my problem, now it might sound harsh.But for real now,if I offer my help and they do not take it.I don't need to force them or bully them to doing it. I need to keep doing what I am doing and not look back. There are so many posts out there about haters and jealousy and not having a support system. During many things in life ,we all want but can't always have and as adults we should all know that... but people continue to want it. This is the point in our lives where we started doing something to make our lives better and more secure and happy. So why go backwards and worry about everyone else. It's so seems off, I teach all my clients if you don't have a support system. Use yourself as a support system and you will conquer more possibilities and more goals than you could ever imagine.. because most of the times we slow down because we're always trying to pamper all these babies looking in from the outside making their opinions. By all means we should not have to in any way at all. The old saying grab the bull by the horns. I like to say the bull by the horns is your support system. And if it is not there grab Yourself by your mind and soul and push yourself forward. We can only crawl,beg, plead and wish for more so much. Eventually we have to find it in ourselves to stop going backwards and go forward.As hard as it may seem do it by yourself if you have to. Trying to make progression in life and always being held up or having the thought of somebody disliking or being jealous of what we do. That's not going to get us anywhere,in anyway.. remember when your making your scars, conquering your goals, changing your body image. Making your confidence go soaring through the roof. Don't look back and start worrying about who has insecurities and who has all the hate and jealousy for you.. When it comes to change our bodies and our minds to better ourselves. It's a lot easier to let everybody who does not agree with you, fuel you.. So many people have a different outlook on how to push forward. Worrying about who hates you,who was jealous. Certainly does not help you fucking push forward. If they have insecurities offer your help if they don't take it let them keep their insecurities and push on... At this point with the lack of support system. It is better to go on Solo so you have a clear mind, then to have the thoughts of everybody else is not happy .So it screws your mind up. You have made it this far without a support system so why worry about finding one now. You will find one eventually but don't give up and certainly do not worry about someone else not doing what you're doing.Be groovy,be stellar and always be you.Rudi Jensen