Dead beat parents that live with kids (Cursing is strong in this blog)

So this subject just royally gets under my skin,really fucking bad. I myself had really nothing after 14 years old for family,I had enough of family and walked because of their ways. So as I got older and started having kids I understood that creating a bond with your children are important. Fuck does it piss me off to see parents sit on their damn asses while the child needs something. This day and age between social media and music apps and all the dick and vag you can look at. No wonder why some are just plain loser dead beats. So to me there is more then just a dead beat because the parent is not in the kids life. Sometimes it is better that way to avoid hardships. But parents whose kids live with them and do fuck all. Ok I will refraise that,you have those parents who know they are dead beats. But will get dressed up and take selfies like they are spending quality time with their kids. Knowing damn well they are gonna go sit on their ass right after. But hey they got everyone thinking they are mommy or daddy of the year. But really a whole new level of dead beat service has been achieved. Bloody bullshit... You have the parents that are secretly doing Meth,pills or drinking on the side. Forgetting the needs of them little kids or kid. By all means I am no fucking dad of the year and dont spend every second with my kids or want to. But so many things from drugs,cell phones,dick or vag involved. Make alot of folks fogged on which way to go. I say.."go where your kid is you fucking dead beat". Diapers,clothes and bedding should never be over looked,when your kids are in school. You should be up and watching them off and making sure they are dressed and have lunch. When you have a baby that cant do shit themselves,get the fuck out of bed when your kid is up. Your child is only a baby so long. Dont fuck that up so early in life,First few years is the most important bonding that a child needs. Give them that attention and give it with love and want. Maybe you should not have a baby or teenager if you hate them or want nothing to do with them. So in every culture this shit goes on,shit even some animals are deadbeats. No matter if a adult or a teenager parent.Shit still goes on...Still no excuse,what I dont understand is the dead beat can be raised in the best possible ways,but can still turn out a little sour. What puzzles me even more is for the men and women that had deadbeat parents but continue to be one themselves. But I guess in reality it really boils down to how they are as a person. Still if anyone knows it is me that knows. Having 5 kids,sure of course there are fucking times you wanna throat punch and beat them. But of course just a non deadly thought.. But a parental thought most have whether they admit or not. Some parents just wanna stick the kids to the wall with tape. But know we cant,but thoughts are always welcome as a adult. You should never be too much of a dead beat,you wont feed,clothe or shower your child. Wake the fuck up before you destroy the kid and mess up that little learning mind. No matter how much I write or state or any one else for that matter. Deadbeats will be around for a hundred more years doing everything but take care of their own kid. So as much as it is sadness that a child goes through life having parents and never really seeing or having bonding time. Far from few. It is a strong reality for some poor kid out there. If you are reading this and are one of these parents. Get a grip,there is no excuse for putting your lazy ass in front of your kids. Do something with them instead of doing fuck all,bond play and quit being a fucking dead beat. Nobody expects you to be parent of the year. But your child looks up to you like a idol,why fuck that up.. Rudi Jensen