Christmas mind crashing and stressing

We all know as the title says,our minds do some crashing. Unless your pockets are lined very well with dollars. You will know this feeling,the majority of middle class and low income families. Fucking killer emotional and stressful times for them. Worrying around October,wondering on how or where you will have enough money to make your children,spouses or friends happy. Myself I try not at all to stress about it. I think yes that Christmas is about sharing and giving. Filled with warmth and love and happiness. But also for families and friends to unite,gifts should not only make that happen. Well for everyone it is not the case on holiday times. More like crying,stressing,spazzing and mind crashes. Some of you might just say that "oh well,should of saved,or went to school,had a better job" see well myself I like to say to those fuckers. It dont matter school,job,saving. Some things for some people are just shit. I know alot with diploma status and have street box status. So what does that show you,does not show it is always the person. Some things in life can just happen and we will have no choice. End up homeless or jobless. Never makes a person at all,some things just happen. Hell everyone out there has needed help sometime. Anyway back to my point here,the struggles alot go through in the 11 months adding up to Christmas can be complete hell. Then when December rolls around they are feeling all screwed and the hell gets worse. The lack of funds just to pay gas,electrical and food with housing. Struggles are bloody real in life,yes some are fuck ups. But not all,some just have low income jobs and not all should be punished over the amount they are paid. For the people I know with low income. Those fucking people have my respect,they get up everyday for a piss poor job and continue to try to make a better life. The suicide rate around Christmas is insane. The stress levels for even those with money,so many people always so worried about disappointing another they buy for. Omfg people shake your fucking head ...If you got to go broke,lose your mind or listen to someone banter about not getting you something. Or digging yourself a grave for life insurance asking for shit you can only get with that or selling a limb. What the fuck kind of person is that,not a caring worth while one. To me I call them parasites. See with my kids,I taught them it is not about the gift. But about the thought at hand. My mother is low income and whether she bought something second hand or new but with a low price tag. Kids were taught to respect that and they do. I know it is a big day to alot,but people also got to remember spoiling someone with gifts is a temporary feeling handed out whether it a personal gift or not. Some people try to ressurect their relationship by buying them partners extra and lavish gifts hoping to do damage all year long up until. Well screw a butterfly that is obsurd. Like that shit ever bloody works.. Then suffer over it after the holidays a great deal.. Visa companies love Christmas because of all the suckers out there spending shit they dont have.. Now as for advice on this matter,lose the obligated to go broke feeling. Thinking about killing yourself,crying,losing your mind and having it crash. In the end is not worth it at all TO MAKE THAT MUCH SACRIFICE TO YOUR BODY AND MIND... I feel sorry for some of the stated people,some people just have a gift in their mind to wanna satisfy all. As good as it sounds and as great as the gifts can be. Myself gifts are nice,but having someone purchase me a gift out of their bank range. I cant accept and not feel bad about.. How some of those demanding and greedy folks out there feel of what they ask for,sure deep down they feel like a fucking douche bag.. They should be bloody ashamed of themsleves from skin to bone. How anyone in a relationship,friendship could watch a friend or lover stress out so bad about buying or worrying about getting that expensive gift. Sure the fuck baffles me,sick cunts. Sorry for the "C" word but totally pisses me off to see this.. The way to ease the pain and mind crash situation is to avoid the greedy and get what you can. I know some just have a spending problem,but that is different then being low income and having the stress,burden or worry. I get a tone of emails asking what is the solution or advice.. My advice again is,dont go broke because of the needy and shop all year long for those gifts. Never lose your mind when things are out of your control.. And let me tell all you hunnies and blokes out there.. You will get more satisfaction being comfortable after Christmas and during not stressing about making everyone else but yourself happy.. We should always think how things are gonna effect our minds before jumping into something. So remember dont lose your shit over shopping for a gift.Rudi Jensen

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