Fake love

So I will be straight to the point on this.."FAKE LOVE" it is everywhere. Every corner of the world you can find it. There is always someone out there with bad intentions to get ahead. Whether it be because they need money off one,need to feel high by fucking someone over,using someone for housing. This shit is everywhere. So bloody hard to know who is for real anymore and only interested at the person at hand. Seems dating now because of social media is crazy,many stringing a few people at once. To some it seems harmless,but myself. I damn well know that if I am seeing someone,sure the fuck dont want someone else cutting in and it being like a competition. And that is how it goes,myself there is no way in hell I would have a second date with someone doing dates with 2 or more others. Sure relationships are about options,but the greed over that is not right. What happened to love being about love. Not loving for the looks or for the money. Choices is a part of life to some,no doubt about that. But to me,I think it is wrong. Some might say I am not sleeping with them all,myself I dont give a shit. If I am dating I am not sharing my time with another guy to see who comes out on top. Kinda like having your boss micro-manage you over your shoulder at work. Seems little shameless to myself,I am little old fashioned on that I guess. But also have no plans on changing my views. Now the fake love come in so many ways now. So many people misleading one another living together. So many men and women playing another that they so in love with them. But have another on the side,of course most people know marriages are most targets. But so are single moms,people lonely are always praying victims. This is because they are seen as a easy target for money or a bam bam thank you mama shit. Dont get me wrong we people like to have our bells rung. But not in the wrong way. They is a break down process most use trying to get inside someones head. So flowering someone with small gifts and compliments in the beginning. Just to get those soft feelings going. Now I know it is like a spell and easy to get sucked into. Especially when a single lonely mom or man or women lonely with money. People will sink to very low levels trying to get a piece of ass or bank notes. Of course parasites like this are everywhere and hard to just pick out. The shitty thing is,once someone gets in your head and in your heart. Fuck we are man handled on the inside with a real shitty position now. Because of that fake love,we are blinded by what the truth is. We are taken for granted,our banks are drained and feelings from every angle are hitting you. They are so sweet in the start,then omfg it turns to shit. Slowly little signs come out like bright fluorescent light. Some have disappearing lovers or drug filled. Some are just filled with games to see if they leave for a few days. Too see how hooked you are and then use that. See anyone can say I love you and be sweet. But to be original and spontaneous to someone,now that is a great sign. So may misleading signals from men and women. I say both because it is just not men. Men are just to ashamed for letting a women take them. So it is not always surfaced and spoken of,now there is genuine folks out there looking for just love and comfort. But there are those scummy people you meet and seem so decent. You spend a good week laughing,fucking and bonding. Them boom they spring it on you that they are homeless. Boom here it goes to shit. Now not saying that losing a job and then your home over a lay off is life and cannot be controlled. But being a scum bag and just doing it is another. I hear this shit so much. And the thing is,so many people have not had anyone make them feel special in such a long time. Fall into games so easy. We live in a lonely world at times and loneliness sets in. Now we also have those broken love stories where someone is not happy in current relationship so wants to disrupt another,that too is another shitty thing. There are so many people in a relationship that is ready to crumble already and that brings in someone else for some fun. Of course not fucking cool right? But people can be so sweet when they wanna be. Dont look for dreamy people,look for real people. Dont settle for what you have coming at you. Not everything in life is worth our time or love....  Once you realize that it is fake love and you are being used. That is when the pain and games start to take off with the one offering fake love. Here in this stage the fucking nightmares are just lets say are not supposed to be around when we are adults anymore. So anyway some of the stories that float around about getting rid of fake love abusers. Well fuck me with no lube why dont you. Running,hiding,moving,changing numbers,setting a grown man or women up to get the fuck out of your life. Like come on,this is where you should be able to have a license to take someone the fuck out of commision. It took me years to get rid of one massive headache,she was nuts. Everything from lying,drinking and smacking me,spending all my money. Hitting me with whatever came across her touch. Now after so long. Our hearts do not desire this behavior in anyway. See when fake love stories begin,our minds are weak looking for happiness. But after that is gone and we wake up,wheww get the fuck out. We begin to see the behavior we wish on no other. In these situations in life,it is hard to pick out who will love us correct and who will invade our minds and hearts with broken and fake love. Never let someone enter your life over you being lonely or horny. This is where we fall into the category of suckers. We should not feel obligated to bang uglies on first dates with worries of no call backs. We need to learn to click with people for the right reasons so we dont end up a played sucker. Keep your hearts attached and be cautious. But never just shut down if it happens,not all is like that.Rudi Jensen

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