Self love

I decided long time ago to love myself after many years of neglect and damaged emotions. Ones that brought me way down a deep dark and lonely path. Relying on others to love,help and support me. Falling apart seemed like a everyday thing. I was ashamed of myself to do things,umm yah like my goals and moving ahead. Knowing damn well that I should not be in anyway. None of us should ever have to feel that. We should have dreams and beleive in them and never be ashamed to have them or not complete them. Listen to so many people say: so and so was so disappointed in me because I never made this goal.: who the fuck cares what anyone else thinks. If you think you did your best,fuck the rest. Sitting there second guessing yourself because of another. Pffft screw that shit,unless your a complete douche all the time. Why second guess. I know you will thank me later. I feel very strong about self love and being yourself,in all means not a asshole or bitch either. We dont have to form our personalities for others. Some people try to mold you how they want. Pffft your life..It is our choice if we wanna be people persons or not. Some people are content of having no friends or lovers.. Anyway self love we all need it and wanna it... It is the greatest thing we can give ourselves in life. To move through life and not love yourself,can lead to a lonely and unsatisfying one. As mentioned before,you dont need anyone to love yourself and be comfortable as you. Of course we all need to have that feeling of being loved and supported. But in reality in life,we cant always wait for everyone to bail us out of life. Whether it be emotionally or financially. Sometimes we got to do things ourselves and not look back at all. There will be a time to look back. It will have been a learning lesson some more then others. Sometimes we endure terrible hardships in life to learn about ourselves and to be alone. It is needed in our life,we need to know we as a whole can do things. Yes that is right all by OURSELVES.We dont need excuses on why we need to do something. IT IS LIFE,moves with you or without you.. We will have broken love,lost jobs,sudden living arrangements fall apart. Things that are gonna test us,yes of course we are gonna lose our fucking minds and who we are. But that is ok,part of learning about ourselves. If everything fell into our laps,how the hell would you ever learn what you are capable of. Throw in a child into your life,you are gonna learn what kinda person you are in the first few months. Either you be a fucking dead beat asshole or you be a good loving parent. Kids make us learn a very good valuable lesson when learning about ourselves. It is ok to be fucked in the head every now and then in our life span. It is staying there that is gonna make you a person who gives up or rises..You should only worry when your fucked up in your head and do nothing ever. Because you are a useless to everyone including yourself. We can only be truly useful if we understand ourselves and our actions. But you can still find yourself and love you,never give up on making yourself better person inside and out. We can always self heal our minds and bodies. Always about wanting to do that,cell phones,t.v,excuse's and ass sitting is not self love or even an effort. Try it,nobody ever said something bad about self love. Rudi Jensen

A little quote reminder

Self love...

" Worry less about others,

Learn and love yourself,

Do things you would never do,

Push yourself and your limits

Bond with your heart,mind and body.

Self love,find it,

Own it,enjoy it and explore it "