The words " I love you "

So this day in age as the words" I love you" almost become nil with truth. Without any real emotion to most relationships. As sex and relationships come and go like the wind now. Very few have desire to be together forever. Changing relationships every3 and 6 months or a year or two. Most never finding anyone to grow old with and if so. They choose someone out of lonelyness" much like dating the wrong " people dont wanna be alone and are willing to go through partners like skid marks on underwear. People have the wrong concept in every single way. All I hear was he\she has this bad habit or dont do this and dont do this. They never said jump when I said jump..The thing people tend to really forget,is when we meet someone. Of course after a while we will find things that piss us off. Yup that is right,after the honey moon stage. Then the picky shit and psycho stuff comes loose. That is life for fuck sakes,you just dont get a new cell phone and know it perfectly. Takes a bit to weed out the glitches. Part of saying the words "I love you" is due to you want long term and that means working on shit. Now when dating the person you are gonna hook up with has already been with 4,6 or 8 people this year. Red flag or a runner,messed up,player or scared to commit. The shit we wonder... But we also tend to forget over the long term parts of our relationships,about keeping it fresh. You got together for a reason and that is what made the love grow. Then it faded over the years,mostly cause the need to remember why they were together is no longer there.. The longer the relationship,the more misconceptions about love come on stronger. Cause the need to just be comfortable in just thinking the love is there. But when we stop or forget about the things that made the other half happy and more content. Are stopped,being sexy and romantic are a thing of the past. Now it is " lick it and stick it " or " Pssst lets Netflix and chill ". Let me bang you,leave you hanging and call in 4 months. I guess the need of comfort has went out the door with morals gone as well. I have never been much one to sleep around. I am the guy that will wait a month to have any slippery meaningful hot sex,to me I respect that more. Now it seems if we are not putting out on first date. We require no need to answer the phone as this one refused will not call back. I just tell and put this out there.." YOU ALL, who fucking cares if someone dont wanna call you cause you dont put out.FUCK THEM. That is someone likely never deserved to have you anyway. Let alone.."Do you wanna love someone who only wants you when you bang?. Fuck no!!! of course you dont. Love is a very rare thing to come across today. People tend to look for quick love and quick feelings. Well let me remind you fairy tales still do come true. Sometimes waiting for love,sure beats the hell having someone stay rent free in your mind wasting your time for months or years. Seems the more the years go on and I listen to dating stories and in general the breeding with the same sex or opposite. It is everyone is in a rush to be happy. I still dont understand that part. I think happiness comes with patience. Not sure others will ever get that. But to me broken hearts and dead souls are not happiness in any way at all. As fast as things change in life on a split second,be sure to speak your mind,tell others how you really feel. No hold backs,dont be a flake. Sometimes the chance will pass and never arise again. Let your mind and heart be in charge of that moment. Not your v-jay or tootoo... Use the words " I LOVE YOU " carefully,forget about using them if you dont mean it. The heart is a fragile organ and alot of people suffer a great deal on love. Many relationships fail at rough times,as no one tries. If we keep going through love never truly meaning the words"I love you" sooner or a later. Nobody will say it or wanna hear it. Will be like a curse word with no meaning. It is thrown out way to fast anymore. Love is not a crush or lust. Or feeling little special,has such a wide range of meanings. Use it so someone does not end up lost,broken or destroyed.... ©Rudi Jensen