We all have baggage

As the older we get,we find more people we meet from near to far. Is full of baggage and drama,the fuck with that I say. But but but,sometimes we need to overlook that if we wanna be happy and move on. I always reminded myself that with another person you have no ties with. Well to be part of them,you sooner or later will figure that out the easy way or the hard way. We need to except people have some kinda past. We would be gulliable not too. Now dont get me wrong there is alot of fucked up baggage out there. But to me as long as someone works,that is fine to grow off of. I really dont give a rats ass if you a thousandnaire or not. As for ex's baggage,like fuck really we are all adults. That problem is gonna always be there,unless you meet a prude virgin at your older age. And because most have children with ex's,it is bound to be there. Rarely you meet ex couples who have their shit together without drama. Now I listen to so many people throw someone out of their life over the smallest and stupiest shit I ever heard. Like I know this girl,we are not friends no more. She never liked my opinion on this. But anyway she was dating a guy for 8 months. She met him wehile he had a beard,well his new job made him shave. She flipped on him when she seen him and dumped him. Yes I said the bitch dumped him. She said she wsas not physically attracted to him nomore. Wtf is that raw brutal warfare shit. That is low,low low. Atraction yes means a whole lot. But a fucking beard. I know this guy that dated a girl for 3 years. When she cut her hair,he dumped her. Like are feelings absolete nowadays cause every body is dreaming of a perfect world and relationship. Like fuck me that is harsh. I have received emails of people being dumped cause they wont go to the gym,dont wanna climb,dont wanna hike,they wont change style of clothes they wear. They dont get along with family or friends. Family and friends are a hit and miss. I look at it is if you try and dont fit my family and friends very well. Who fucking cares as long as you fit me. Well is there not other activities out there. Who cares if someone has a bad habit,break it or work with it. With the amount of broken love,broken hearts and broken minds. Leaving ourselves to be so so picky. Back fires on us in many ways. Now again dont get me wrong. Some bad habits are not worth working with. But I hear from she wears too much make up to he has a chipped tooth. His clothes are not cool,he dont drive a truck,she has a kid and etc. Like wtf in a world where so much real shit is rare. I watch the most perfect relationships fail,cause of teeth,clothes,small habits. I ask myself why and it just keeps baffling me weekly. I think happiness is something that grows. Being not picking someone over something like cosmetics,I hope you choke. Love is created not by looks or body. It is a perk. But love comes from the words and actions you here. Like you just dont get a flower and not water it or get a dog and tie it out back for weeks apon weeks. Things need work and some people forget it. I see people get rid of someone cause they dont own a house at 40 or own a vehicle. With mortgage rates and cost of living. No wonder people dont,not easy to save in this economy anymore with the amount of taxes we pay. To me I dont think that is considered baggage and many do. The priorities on happiness are just so fairy tale like now. Now I must say that being picky for your future and happiness is ok. But really as long as there is a semi comfortable living. I think that counts alot for things. It is not assets that bring us to full happiness. It is the way we feel about things inside of our minds and heart. The way a person makes us feel,is all that should matter. The rest you grow together with to get things and go places. Now the baggage thing just gets worse over the years with people. Not to single out women,but women have a very shitty out look on most me. Yes I understand you got hurt,but being a man hating materialistic princess will keep you a moody man hating bitch forever. Now see to me,having a huge wall built up because you got hurt. Making someone fight hard to knock it down. Well that folks is baggage at its finest. Remember that when your choosing too,guys notice the man haters. Now to explain,when you enter every meeting,relationship or potential partner. And you go in all negative,what the fuck you think was gonna happen. As a man I am not a fan of listening to women refer to all guys as dogs and a bag of shit. That is starting off with huge baggage being a man hater,so you all dont think I am picking on the ladies. Dudes you guys are no better with the,she is a slut or pig talk. You can fuck 30 people a year and your a Viking,but if she does. That is a slut,like fuck off with the double standard shit. You guys are always bitching and moaning she gonna take half your shit. Fuck off again with the negativity,women dont like women bashing men either. That is baggage at its finest also. So both ya all shut the hell up and work on shit together. Now see to me when people are more worried about minor things,that is welcoming a baggage of negativity. That is you taking your happiness away for such minor shit. Baggage has so many ways you can explain,not all baggage should be considered bad though......Just my 2 cents..©Rudi Jensen