Sincerity of dating

I miss the sincerity in dating with folks,we really dont know anymore. People who just piss out of their mouths or who is talking reality. What is real and what is fake,people have got good at being deceiving now with all the choices. So I am seeing this shit so much now. I am glad I am not looking on the market. I rather smash my dick against the counter then the head ache of trying to keep someone's attention that got 63 and a half other dick chasing them already. No bird is worth chasing like that. I dont think dating is a competition out there. Some people in both sexes do. Guess I am old fashioned for that shit. When one person is trying for you,it is either let them pursue and pursue back or let them go. Everyone has their own agenda and at most it never includes just one person. To me the amount of it in dating is just out of this fucking world. Trying to date now is like going fishing. Dangle your hook and hope for the best. You got schools of fish circling but all on hook waiting for the other one's turn to finish talking. Most that are waiting for that bite,them mother fuckers playing 12 others also. Now to me nothing wrong with compliments whether you say it to 10 or 50 people. But,but when you are trying to get to know someone and they are just rating on the level of so many more chasing them. Wow fuck up. Like ummm here is a picture I sent you before,oops I said to you what I said to someone else,oh did you say that too. Some people just cant keep the plays correct without fucking it up with red flags. The sincerity is just gone,I write about this shit all the time. It disgusts me to know,you never know who is sincere when you chat,date,get to know or wanna just bump the ugly's with anymore. Where is the fucking sincerity people,you wanna meet normal folks. But people so into being so fucking insecure. They got to play so many at once. How the fuck you even know your feelings are not wasted on who you trying for. We have so many broken people in our world,but it continues. See for one thing I as a guy,few days after talking to a women. You know damn well if she is playing you with 6 or 89 others on how it goes. You all got to know some of the signs,like you are all getting close and chatting. Them boom it fades,now to me two things happened here. One he or she has had someone else peak their interest more or you just gone and fucked up. Now attention is great and makes us feel sexy,hot and wanted. But is that the attention you want. I see women who have the sweetest and best of men fit for them. But fuck it up because they need all the other flirting from the many others. No sincerity there. I watch my guys friends fuck shit up the same way. Always want to have 50 tuna boxes around. I think many people love the easy attention so much and so many have forgotten what sincerity is. Myself I know damn well that I am a good looking guy. But as if I wanna confuse myself with 25 ladies or have that much drama in my head. I am just totally turned off by the fact of so many people chasing one. So much time gets invested into one party and gets pissed out the door. I have watched people have dates with someone else and cancel last minute just to go out with someone better looking. Not really because they are sweeter or more romantic. But because looks are a huge deal,dont get me wrong it is our nature to be attracted to our partner mentally and physically. Now I can be head over heals for someone,but if my dick not gonna work because she is not my kinda attraction. Well does that make me wrong or does that make me have who I am. No one can force us to be attracted to anyone ever. Now back to sincerity,so many people bitch and complain they cant find the right lady or man. Well quit playing 20 others all the fucking time and at most people are not stupid. When it comes to seeing where the attention span went. So many up grades daily happening,no sincerity in love or dating. We all have the right to be choosy 100% and more. But when do we stop putting our feelings on the line over for so many? When do we stop caring about someone who may sound better but not better. When does judging our potentiall partners ahve to be what society thinks,friends or family. As far as I am concerned my heart is no one's business unless we share each others. So so many broken and game playing freaks. No wonder half the people have itchy coochies and are on meds. The rest have so many partners trying to find that #1,that they forget who they are. I can never stress enough,love yourself before you love another. But it is shit like this why trust issues are huge and sincerity has been thrown out the door. Men are not men anymore,it is really hit and miss out there. Women are not women anymore either,total hit and miss. You all been fucked up for the most part and have lost any sense to be better or to stop messing with so many other fucked up people. Anyway I must say,sincerity is needed from both sides. Hard to try to get to know someone with so much to choose. Relationships and partners are not menu's..Rudi Jensen