As we sit and wait the perfect fit

So many people I talk to are always bitching they can never find anyone normal. Ummm so what,enjoy time with yourself. Everyone else thinking the same,chill out and forget. One day you be wishing for that time alone. We sit and wait for the perfect fit to come into our lives. Making us like a fairy tale like theme shit show in our head. For what we sit and imagine we will get,have,love and be loved by. Drives us bat shit crazy,so why do it. Cause we are so fucking alone and tired of flakes and magicians out there. So we wish,make up and fabricate the perfect partner. Of course mostly to be discouraged cause we usually fucked that one up. Picking the wrong one by far. So create that fairy tale if you like,but remember it really is fairy tale like. Don't get me wrong,I love women,dating,the perfect fit. But why set up for failure thinking ahead way to far. Of course thinking of how you want them to dress or act. But everything else and the pumpkin is fairy tale til that time. So work on you while you are waiting,without being desperate. I know right I said it again. It really is facts both men and women,sadly I say mostly women. Ladies flick your damn bean,get a heated blanket and a fucking dog or a 4 foot teddy bear. Less heart break and magicians I must say,when we are ready. That special will come in sight and swoop you away. We all sit and wait and while we do that. Yup we are so desperate and lonely the shitty decisions start coming. So you feel lonely and wanna cuddle,so yah call Jim Headache for the night. 3 days late Jim gave you a migraine,sure the fuck is not worth that cuddle. You men now, I think more you get the wrong lonely part and just miss the fuzz. The one's actually looking for women,Lori the Internet Ho is only gonna come and plan the the two of youz wedding. Yah so not worth it,get what I am saying everyone. Everytime we act desperate or get lonely. We end up picking ourselves up,to me masturbation is way less problems. Then when we do meet a cool,stellar and beautiful person. We sometimes fuck it up being so clingy or rushing shit. Cause you so desperate and don't wanna lose them now. Well see it all rolls around and that is why people need to be alone. Not always,but for sometime after another or after living with someone. Helps us move along in our minds for many things. I am just gonna mention a few gooders. #Strength #Self Love #Comfortable being alone.. Those 3 things are empowering to anyone, if not the last thing should be the smile on your face. If it is not there,I am afraid to say. Be comfortable with yourself. Change the smile,we don't need a person to make us happy. We need to be happy and then make another happy. Otherwise we fuck up two hearts instead of one. Rudi Jensen 

Be groovy

Be stellar

and always

Be YOU....