Ugly or hot we worry so much

So everyday I listen to people bitch and moan someone is ugly as fuck. Don't get me wrong I have said it before as well. But as I have learned over many years. Beauty is not measured by my eyes to anothers. Truly beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we all have heard that. I think this is one old saying that is shit. As not everyone does see him or herself as a beauty. So what happens when it is not that way and someone it utterly grossed out by the way they look ? It is hard to compliment people like this, as they have been broken from harsh words. So kind words of one's eyes that see the beauty they don't. Can be heard or will not even register to the person as they wright you off. A few things really to start off is to remind anyone they are beautiful. Really how hard is it to tell someone they are beautiful or look pretty in that hot dress ? That is correct it is not hard, as long as the approach is proper and respectful. Most will gladly take the compliment. We all need to feel comfortable in our own skin and love ourselves. Truly is not the easiest thing to do in the world in any way. Some people were yes not born with chiseled cheeks and 5 star bodies. So have a had alot of torment because of that, but, but, but. This is where ya'll say fuck this Rudi guy. But believe it or not, good looking people are some of harshish people I have ever met about how their looks are. Of course I am not gonna lie, there is plenty out there that spend more time with make up sticks and lips stick and more mirrors then they have friend contact. Some of these dudes yes are so far into themselves I am surprised they don't trip over their other feet. Or try to breed with the bloody mirror. So yes I know that, so shhhhsh. I am really talking about these beautiful men and women who are so unsatisfied with the way they look. They alter, filter and filter to get the look of desire. So much when you meet them in public, you are like wtf are you and who. Or when the make up comes off you are like who are you. Men are so bad with everything from clothes to jewelry, to smelling nice with 50 different cologne bottles. Thinking that clothes will do the trick to fill the need to feel beautiful. It is a sad situation for anyone to be in thought of beauty thinking the worse. We are under so much scrutiny and judgement now. So fucking hard for anyone to like themselves, let alone love what they have in life. Ugly versus beauty to me is a problem that should and needs to be dealt with. But in regards to getting that too happen, we need many more nice people in our world. Everyone will always judge no matter if it was a finable law or not. It is just life, I try to convince and lead people to believe that they need to think they are beautiful and in more ways then looks. People have fuck all with just beauty, you be stuck in a far fetched world believing so. So still not sure why some rely on them looks, that in the end are only temporary.. They fade as age goes on, we can botox and plastic up. But really underneath the fake. You are fading like everyone else, life is so much better if we don't worry about what others think of our beauty. It does matter that we learn to love ourselves and know we are beautiful. Some take years to relaize this, nothing wrong with that. It is a well known fact that in so many ways. Yes the more attractive in society you are. There are more then one opportunities that come up. But really not more then you would think, unless you spreading those legs on a porn channel. Feeling comfortable with our looks is hard because of the harsh critcism that is out there. All we can do is try and let everyday be a better day on the outlook. Little less make up each day, dress down a little more casual, skip the purfume or cologne for the day. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful. Just so you know, the mirror don't talk to no one else. It is safe to talk to everytime you need it, then you get good advise from yourself. All in all ugly versus hot is always gonna be a thing in our society, nothing is gonna change that. With all the plastic surgery and magazines saying look this way and that way. Soon we will be able to change our whole bodies and skin. But we will slowly break apart inside daily and yearly worrying about being ugly or hot. Or trying to fit in with everyone else is a headache on its own. I can't stress enough how much happier you will be, just being yourself. So I am not a pro at this loving myself either shit, I wake up some days and that honest opinion of a mirror. Is like dammmn you ugly mofo, but I carry on and later realize I am fucking stellar and that is the way to believe you are beautiful in and out. Easier said then done, no doubt. But thing is it can be done.... Rudi Jensen

Be groovy,

Be stellar 

and always 

Be YOU.....