Acceptance on sex preference

So first before I tweak someone's vag, slong or both. I have no problem what anyone's sexual preference is. This blog has taken me around 1500 emails on this subject, so little on my history. As young as 5 we were introduced to the gay community and taught about respect of one's choices. Now not everyone in my birth family thinks the way I do. I said we were introduced and taught, I never said it was accepted by everyone. So anyway I did, never judged people on what you wanna bang. Just leave the animals alone.. So my favorite aunt is a lesbian, My uncle is now my aunty with surgery, 4 of my great friends are gay and 1 is a most stellar crossdresser with more life in them then anyone else I know. So I have been around it all and to top it all off, my second oldest daughter is lesbian. So after reading this blog, if you think I am against it, well then you are part of societies problem with hate and frankly can go and fuck yourself. So there are many debates about all the new terminolgy for different ways to identify someone's sexual preference. My problem is with all the out roar, I get it. Alot of men just put on lips stick and earrings and want people to take them serious they are a women. Well really I see the point, it is hard to register. I see no need for awareness, bullying campaigns, finable laws or anything else. People are always gonna be judgemental, we will always look at them as being mental. We will never ever be able to change how people wanna think. We can't force people to accept someone they don't wanna. Like what the fuck is wrong with everyone, sooner or later we will have nothing to be offended over. We will have a snowflake world in every way. Who's idea was it to force friendship or someone to like another. We are not kindergarten children for fuck sakes. The way people are indentifying themselves now. Like names are being made up, I am old school 100%. To me you have a gay man, a gay women, crossdresser, drag queen, Bi sexual and one's in the process of the greatest moment of their life. Yes the operation , So what if someone don't want their penis, sometimes I wanna cut mine off too. Who cares if someone wants to be rid of their vag, sometimes I want one of them too. I really though honestly think that whether you want to be a man, women, crossdresser, drag or anything else "sorry toO many to list now" . People if you never knew there was gonna be a back lash from the straight community. You live in a dull, fairytale like moment IN YOUR LIFE. We are always scrutinized from birth til death, we are very gullible to think we will go through life and not have any. Making changes to the body is a very touchy subject now. So myself I am gonna be very blunt here, I support I will say 80% of this all. I will not ever support the fact on how we are born as a boy or as a girl. I find it so wrong  and fucking bullshit when a new born baby has no idenity. I say born a girl and born a boy. Why is it that a parent can decide to hold that back from children and not see the problem. That is a decision a child should make when old enough. Not be coarsed to be what the parents want. I see this everyday and I think this is where the community portray alot of back lash from the public. Many people will hardly recognize a sex change, what makes people think. Forcing your child to wait will never be accepted I am afraid to say. Anything else all the power to you, but fucking with a kids developement. I will never ever agree with to please anyone. I strongly believe the developement of a child should not be coarsed or pursuaded. So when parents do this it enrages alot of people world wide. Cause most parents let kids be kids, not start the control like a fucking warden in a jail. Now being accepted by society is never gonna be easy whether you are in the gay community or a skater, pink, hooker or banker. We can spread awareness all we want, forcing people on what we dont like. Never ever gonna float with the straight community. The gay community calls hate all the time when not accepted, the straight community boasts it is offended it is being forced to accept something. NO ONE EVER SHOULD BE FORCED TO LIKE ANYTHING. Now I know alot of gay men and women, cross dressers and drag. I know many who have had the change, very few of them really care what others think. Why, because they are comfortable in their decision to become who there are. They are not out there trying to change people's minds and be a nuisense and cause a ruccus forcing people. I so believe that more awareness on it might help. But really, but not really. They just carry on with their lives, I recommend that people do the same. Why does every gay man or women or etc have to announce they are. Nobody really care's until mentioned in most case's. Why do some just want the spot light ? I am sure everyone remembers how hated the gay community was years ago. Well if this forcing beliefs on everyone shit keeps happening. Fuck it is coming again, I can't stress enough that forcing people is only gonna back fire. Acceptance will never full come for anyone ever from everyone. Most people really don't care about your preference, they just don't understand and are curious. Alot of people don't understand the gay community and see how it is a loving and family community too. I myself think it is society and not separated as community. If I had my way, we would all accept each other or not and move one other wise. Now again I will stress forcing is not right, it is like forcing everyone to accept religion, over many dead bodies that would happen. People will fight tooth and nail to disagree. Most people I know don't force their way on another to be accepted. This is where I draw the line with them, some are causing hate out there in a huge way. NOT ALL. and even the gay community is ashamed of some of their behavior..I am sure most of you seen the cross dresser with earrings and purse at the video store on fb. Took a fucking spaz of a cross dresser to make the gay community look bad. People have a hard time accepting someone who just has purse, earrings and lips stick. This all started because the word sir was used. See I agree to disagree here, so as for the cross dresser. Yes the clerk could of said sorry ma'am instead at first and not said it second time either.. He/she has chosen their way and others choose theirs. Problem is because no one took her serious about being a female was no way needed to act like a fuck head whiny bitch.. The mouth was unreal and then again over being called sir and not ma'am. Fucking bullshit, you know critisim is out there ten fold. It is frustrating I could only imagine how hard it is to not be accepted. I feel for everyone over that, but acting like some spoiled little pampered bitch. WTF you expect, the video has been seen over 5 million times. About 400,000 comments are all mostly negative on how it was approached by the MA'AM. spazzer. With that, makes the gay community look so bad. Awareness can happen all you want, you will never make anyone call a man a women or women a man. That should never stop anyone from still being them. You wanna be different to others, be comfortable with yourself. Expect back lash it is just fucking reality... Rudi Jensen