Spewing hate after a break up, man hater/women hater

Ok, ok I get it, some guy fucked you over, broke your heart and treated you like shit. I will be the first to say sorry that happened to you. But at the same time I'm also going to tell you that bashing every man out there. Calling them all sociopaths or narcissists is not making any situation better at all.. I know obviously. A lot of you women don't care about categorizing all men. But when push comes to shove other men are watching your bashing. I can assure you they are never going to want to be a part of your heart or mind.. Shit happens and yes people are flakes and there is no doubt about that. But at the same time when you date 6 or 7 people a year and say they all suck or treated you like shit. Well sorry my dear, it is either you need to find the right dude and not boy. Or you need to shake that head and realize it could be YOU. There is no denying that bad relationships can be ugly to the mind and painful. Dwelling on it is even worse. There will always be he said she said situations on how a relationship was. In reality neither should be believed, you should just learn on your own unless there's a huge track record. Never ever kid yourselves ladies, us man go through this exact same shit. And yes a lot of men do the bashing over it.. but for the most part we do not categorize every Woman as a bitch, slut, or a fucking psycho. And to just point out plain and simple the word narcissistic goes both ways with men and women. The sad part about breakups is everybody always blames and no one takes no blame. One person is always going to blame, and try to destroy the other person's character and integrity. I hate to say that it's just life, but it's the facts in reality.. I see this stuff every day on social media, in person and I get tons of emails about the subject. There's not much I can offer for advice but if you really want to get away from the other person. Don't let it be well known how much you hate them, just think of mental pain and heart break you're causing yourself at the moment. All they are doing is sitting back knowing that they won and you're the one that's destroyed.. Why the fuck would you want to give anybody that satisfaction is really beyond me. Shake your goddamn head for fuck's sake. Speaking with many men and women sending me emails and seeing this shit. Does no one really understand you picked that person. Our judgement will always have a short attention span when people are interested in us. We don't think clearly and with that. We underestimate what kinda of fuck wad we have in front of us. So what do we do ? blame all the opposite sex of course. We need someone else to blame, because the person that fucked you over. Well to you, everyone else is that way. I see many of you men and ladies all still single. Cause you such hateful bitches and assholes cause someone broke your heart. Sorry but not all are the same. Zip your pants and don't let everyone in like it is a lunch buffet. Likely mostly as no man watching from the outside or women. They are gonna want nothing to do with a man hater or a women hater. Kinda hard to ask someone out when they are so fucking bitter. Get rid of your litter and quit spewing out the glitter. I can never have a answer to anyone, does not matter how special we are. People will always see a opening and see a target. Some people are just not meant for a relationship and should not date in anyway. But then you have some that just date to screw people over and do some cat fishing. So naturally we categorize them all in every way possible. But I am sorry if you hate me for this part. I don't fucking care if you are a man or a women doing it. Bashing the opposite sex cause you had that precious heart broken. YOU ARE NO WORSE THEN THEM. As you sit and tell everyone with 500 memes a week and 20 posts a week how Jerry, Diane, Suzie, Bill and Henry and Melissa fucked you over. Did it get you anywhere ? Did it make you feel better for more then the brief moment of the bashing ? Likely not, if so. WOW, maybe you were the problem. So many bitter bitches out there, I am sorry a real women does not advertise her bullshit break up to the world. She will strengthen herself up and learn to love again. Men no better you are a bunch bitter assholes too. So with all of this going on with both sexes. One would think that there would be more broken people for broken people the any other way. Moral of this post is, we are gonna get broken in life. We will have pain, tears, cuts and bruises, not all cuts and bruises will be on the outside. Many of us will break on the inside because of it. But really people why fucking boast and carry on because someone hurt you. Bash him/her, but to bash them all. I see a lonely and sad life for most. Now who care's you don't wanna date, all good. But don't bash and try to fuck everyone else for wanting to be happy by spewing your hatred over the opposite sex. How sad to dwell and bash everyone over anothers mistake. Just saying. Whether man or women, you are scrutinized over it by outsiders watching in. Tell you one thing for sure, that special man or women you could of clicked with. They are like wow they are pure haters. Some of you all just continue to spew this shit over and over. We get it, you are hurt. Want it to stop ? STOP THINKING ABOUT IT AND SPREADING HATE FOR ALL.

Rudi Jensen

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Be stellar,

and always

Be YOU.....

Unless you spewing shit