Valentines has lost its touch

So I will always make jokes about Valentines day as I think how it has become a joke. I am a romantic and sweet guy, do it all year long. Most men and women only recognize it as the only day they need do something extra special.. Valentines day is a day to shed love, passion, desire and more. A day where you show the appreciation and bond you have. Valentines day is not a day just for gifts and sexual desires. It is a bonded day, one where the loves flows even more. It is not a FAD. Where through all the busy times all year, this is a day together. One where the appreciation for each other and the things done all year. Come out in much sweeter and time controlled planning for the day. It is a make love day and not a quick fuck or a fuck day. We all know that with work and kids and etc. We still get horny, but only have minutes or for some ladies... "seconds" had too.. Everything means a tad more.. Some nowadays, not so much. The day has no meaning like it once used too. I remember the days when flowers, movies and dinners. Car doors being opening, holding hands to and from location, going to the door to see the man or women that ignites your soul. But now it is text messages that you are there, no flowers but rather dinner,  drinks and some drunk romping. So now it is all about lavish gifts rather then expressing love. I believe romance should be carried through out the year. The holding hands and special words of expressing the love you have. I find relationships die if there is no romance and passion, it just fails. We need so much in a relationship to keep our minds in what I call.. being successful in our love life. If we have it all, but no sweetness, passion, romance and genuine love. What we got ? friendl like conversations casual everyday stuff we give to everyone. Being close with our partners is not always a easy thing to do or in some case's wanna do. But feeling loved goes far more then just saying some words or buying some lavish gifts or being romantic one time a year. People wanna feel love and you don't feel it if there is no appreciatioin more then once a year. To me ick, What a shitty feeling in all senses, why the fuck anyone only wants romance once a year. I know I know some of you have no choice, but hey to be realistic, you dont need to be Don fucking Won of women or men. You just got to have some sweetness more then once every year. I see so many lavish gifts now, here hunny I spent all my money or our money. Yes correct to make up for me being a cold asshole or bitch 363 days. Really where is the emotions with reality, love for it to be real. It has to be refreshed now and again and there is no doubt about it. Sometimes we do get annoyed with our partners, I know I think of stair pushes here and there with some. But sometimes our old lines and moves need up graded to spice stuff up. Just because we are old fashion or 2019 yeared up. We all need to keep our love lives spicey and full of surprises. Everyone loves a sweet surprise and sometimes not using money is the greatest way.. We need to keep our partners on their toes and not because we forgot to take our meds ha ha. But we need to be like a musician or a magician and change up so no one gets bored of the same material. I am sure you all know that, but do you practice it. Women and men all need sweetness and it should always be around. Expressing love comes in so many ways. With Valentines days you have the one chance a year to top up what you have did all year also. Some of us keep passion strong, for myself change ups are a must. I say fuck dinner, picnic in mountains it is. Cuddle under the stars and sip on wine, sounds way better then a hang over and some kinky drunk sex. So whatever floats you're boat obviously won't float anothers. But keep it realistic, talking to people all year I hear about some greedy folks. Well one should never ask for a gift for pleasuring another, other names for them. So being once again Valentines day passes I see positive and negative posts all over social media. He fucked me and chucked me, he never got me this. Dudes bitching they never got ANYTHING, like wtf is that shit. You little snowflakes bitches.. I am sorry men, valentines day is for the ladies. Some might disagree, but whatever my opinion. Those dudes that complain, I will settle with you if she is a materialistic ho or chump stump lazy dog. As for anything else, tough it out. Not saying that the women should not do anything. But really it is about expressing the inner feelings and thoughts, Times you don't normally have. So it is natural for the ladies, but expected from some dudes still like they got vag and moobs better then the ladies. It is only one day a year you guys can't think of yourself all day. Suck it up. Say cheese cause I know that hurts, but it is reality.. So I taught my boys and girls of course to do it all year long. I let the girls know it is not all about gifts and food. Appreciation goes a long way and is so under rated by all. Keep love strong and alive and just not one day a year. Shit if we keep getting worse and losing the meaning of things, You think we are all broken now, wait another few years.. So that sums it up about V-day. But I will add that I think it is absolutely fine men are in touch with emotions. But letting them out on this day, PFFFT...

Rudi Jensen

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Be YOU...

Unless you a dude whining about V-Day