Broken and then some

So everyday I notice and see so many broken hearts, broken relationships out there. Can we say it is a plague now or on its way there. So everyday I am sure anyone reading knows this well. We have someone dissing the opposite sex or hatting on them. Or you got the friends crying there is no one good out there. If you think about it, all the people who say dating sucks and that there are flakes everywhere. Well if you took all those people and put them all in a room with each other. People still gonna bitch no one is out there. See things go both ways, I am sure everyone out there complaining they met a flake. Things come in 2's in this scenario. Because it is not always the other and it is always that way. There is no taking the blame these days. Like I was not into them it or they annoyed me. The sex was shitty, he or she snored to much. They were dumb as fuck, anything. Take some responsibility on your actions. For years I have had some of the same men and women go on and on about shitty love. Some going through relationships like they a bag of potatoe chips. All complaining still about the other. How does one have 5 or 6 relationships in a year and have all shitty partners. Do you pick them out of a dumpster by chance or go toilet plunging. Likely a confusing matter to anyone watching from the outside. I just will never understand that. I think people set such high standards on what they want. But also fairy tales really are fake as fuck. Yes we can have some fairy tale like relationships. But rare...Standards are high as ever and I think some are to high. They cause commotion and darkness in a relationship off the start. We are all entitled to happiness and love, but being too greedy, too picky and snotty about it. Well that is a start on why it breaks off so soon. Of course we still all wanna have supreme love and comfort. We all deserve it, but the friend zoning every guy\women or the putting everyone in the same category is not cool either. Sometimes we need to break things in, just so we can enjoy it. We just don't get a wild horse and try to ride it. It takes time, patience and commitment to follow through. I really think people should not rush or feel desperate and lonely looking for love. Holy disaster from the start. No lying there straight truth. There is so many people in this world, do the math and minus yourself. Big number right ? So the saying no one is out there is bullshit. There are millions and millions out there. One must actually get away from what choice keeps breaking them. We should never force ourselves over peer pressure. So many people go and find broken love, cause they broken and all the friends are saying do it. Can we say that is a back fire too. Be patient for bloody hell, easier to grow old with happiness then having a broken love with broken love. people need to stop texting problems and going on and on about shit via the internet. People don't talk no more they just text about it and end it. There are no real dates anymore, no real bonding besides Netflix and chill or the local bar. WTF you think was gonna happen in a relationship when it about sex only. The world has really taken the word out of love and the word out of try. We have 2 choices, be broken or not be broken. Meaning we can dwell on single or not. Either way broken hearts come and go in life and it is all how we deal with it that matters in the end. Don't be desperate, don't be needy and lonely looking for love. Love yourself and then love. Saves broken hearts.. Just saying, but wtf do I know. I am just a stellar guy laying the facts on what I see. Rudi Jensen