Quick view about chasing love

Do people really understand in a relationship. That if you are chasing conversation, chasing sex, chasing smiles, laughter and comfort. Chasing love, cuddles and more. That is no longer a relationship anymore. That is a race to see who has had enough first, the chaser or the controller. Obviously there are issues and there is no room for tissue. Because it all has gone, but the roof above. Do people really know this is not the way, this is not love or comfort. Let alone a damn relationship. Not much by any means but a USED TO, a JUST SETTLED and more. We are supposed to feel hurt, withdrawn, happy, sad, pissed off, distant, ecstatic, loving, caring and more throughout a relationship. Not for long periods, but it happens. Many emotions will come in one, not like relationships are fucking fairy-tales. As adults we know this, we either want something or don't. But suckering yourself to pain, discomfort, madness and hate chasing one's affection .. Yes time to move on and stop being a fool. End result HAPPINESS.. You say easier said then done, I say our minds and hearts only take so much of being broken. Before the repairing is a life time thing of trusting and being happy... But why listen to me, some like to chase. I only like to chase butterflies.... Rudi Jensen