Just saying

Many relationships go down the shitter yearly over not supporting one another.. I can never stress enough, sidelining your partner is not the way to go. There will always be harsh and hard decisions to make as a couple. There will always be consequences if done wrong or alone. But one should never make another feel alone, abandoned or like a loser over a decision. Progress comes and progress grows, sticking together helps everything flow. But when one is not so keen, it totally takes away one's self esteem. Support is support and when you bail on that support. That is no relationship at all, some people have everything and some people have fuck all. But if you are together as a whole then everything you have is not supposed to be played alone. If you are advanced and your partner is not. Then helping them progress and offer encouragement rather then nothing but negative or constant bailing. Well if you are If always bailing on them, what does that make you. Love is love and bailing is not love. Some things are meant to be in life together. Some things are not or people. But when two people are not, one is bailing on the others struggles. That needs to be broken apart or dealt with. This is a daily battle for some throughout their relationships feeling lower to their partner and very sad to boot. Love is about being close with your partner, listening to the needs of them. You push, inspire, help mold, comfort, encourage your partners. Never let them feel alone in what they do. This people makes people not wanna be with people. Support your partners decisions, help them further their goals, triumphs and more. Stand tall beside them and show power as a whole. Rather then a shit hole bailing partner. Life happens fast and things change fast. Bailing on your partner. That shit is gonna make things change super fast. Support each other decisions or you just should not be together. Just saying. Rudi Jensen