Oct. 6, 2019

Confused on love

Life can be confusing as whether you wanna have a partner or not. You are not sure you want that pain, fear, love, desire and more. All feelings come in life and relationships bring them all. That is what makes us, should we embrace them all ? Hell yes.. What are we without experiences and lessons learned in life. You may be thinking like screw this guy. Well it is true, I have said this before that we need to experience all emotions at one point. So alot of people shy away from having someone in their life. Due to the fact the first, second or third was complete shit. But not really as much as the person we start with and end with meaning us. We learn values of ourselves it it helps us move forward to find what we want. We have had things we don't want. So that helps us seek what we don't want. Many relationships will start off just as juicy as a peach. But end as sour fruit or rotten meat in the end. No matter if we can control it or not. We don't wanna stick around if it is shit. So many people just give up categorizing everyone the same, in which not 2 people are the same. Yes many people share similar traits amongst them. But we can't not seek love and happiness because of a few bad apples. Sometimes I love saying this, It is not the other and it is YOU. Not everyone is ready for a relationship. That is a learning lesson, now you somewhere where you feel as if your a hostage. Stuck battling emotions. Some people just don't know when it is time to leave or seek help. So know it is not always the other, sometimes we really are just not ready to be loved. I think sometimes we feel the need for security and warmth. But then we grow out of it and want to move on. That is just our minds telling us what we need and that is a good thing..We sit and think we go through life not having a lover and yes that is ok. But we are designed to be in companionship with another. Kinda completes our minds. But at the same time I think all people should find themselves and love themselves before creating a life with another. Keeps love on a positive level that way. But then again none of us were taught to love ourselves 20 years ago and unless you find it in your relationship. It is hard to find you when your in one when you are lost. Many confused people out there and I think that is why people got to go and fuck so much. Sex does not make the mind want relationships, it just wants the love drug feeling. That alone of course is most desirable and satisfying to say the least. But not a life worth just living. People fucking to avoid relationships. But then when you are ready, hard to find someone with a dick with 3000 strides or a punched in lasagna vag. So priorities are off the wall there with confusion about wanting a relationship for love and comfort or just for the love drug. Don't get me wrong... ©Rudi Jensen
 
"Love can be the biggest poison to our hearts
or
The biggest prescription drug ever. "
 
Being confused is part of living, just remember that. Anyway bye.
 
Be groovy,
Be stellar,
and always
Be YOU...