Oct. 30, 2019

Stopping holidays and forcing of dance and sports

Does really blow my mind in today's society how they take away the kids being kids act and holidays for kids. Halloween, Christmas, Easter Bunny, Tooth fairy and etc, the forcing of sports, dance, music and etc. Adults still believe in the bible but don't want kids believing in fake holidays. It is a double standard in our world. Kids need things like this to learn to believe in something. Everyone is so bound to ruin it for them or the parents ruin it. Yes I said parents, kids know when mom and dad don't want something. So when holidays come up and they avoid it, takes the thunder out of the kid. You parents got to be kidding that kids dont want things. Parents always say they dont want to. Well if parents would quit making it sound like they shouldn't be doing it. This goes against everything as PARENT WHEN YOU WONT LET KIDS BE KIDS. The fact of life is, most parents are try to pick what their kids should watch, play, where to go and what sports to play. So this is harsh in every degree. As for sports alot of parents force the kids using excuse like. I never had the opportunity to do this when I was a kid excuse. So you force the kid to be the sports star you were not, WTF kind of parent is that. Sports are sports, but taking away a kids life with friends and experience over pushing them. Now I have seen some harsh parents over dance and beauty pageants. That still blow my mind with all the training and etc. For hours a day and many a week. Harsh parenting skills when mom or dad is washed up from that aspect and now forcing. Amazes me how religious parents force it upon their children. But then try to tell them they are wrong to believe in Santa and many other things, again another double standard. Now parents are forcing kids to be labelled as N- neutral status for sex when born. That to me is one of the biggest problems with parents. Who the fuck does that to a child ? I will tell you for all of these examples. A very self fish and self centered into their own world parent does this shit and that is it. There is no excuse to take kids away from kids beliefs or being a kid. We can want our kids to be anything we want and force them to be it, but in the end. They will be adults eventually and tell you where to fucking go. So self fish of parents in every way, now most kids agree they have too much training or they are not allowed to believe in what they want. Pisses me off, if kid wants a invisible friend when young, let them for fucks sakes. Adults think they are superior to all kids and never really listen. Which is obvious just shit when you don't listen to your child's needs. There are so many kids that have anxiety coming through their asses come dance season, sport season or a holiday. So lighten up on what parents versus kids want. Sooner or later it will back fire forcing your kid to do want YOU want. We should support our kids in what they want to do and not only encourage them. Show them you are into their decision. Rudi Jensen