Silence and ignoring

So in today's world alot of people will punish another by silence/ignoring. Whatever the fuck you wanna call it, to me. Just a game of control and umm yah being a childish prick bitch. Of course in the end this is not gonna help anyone at all. Just brings hate, resentment and more. So doing this, the person ignoring or playing the silent treatment. Well it works for them doing it and some suckers that put up with it. But in reality in this day and age, people are not that stupid and won't put up with it for long. So lets just say I am talking with someone, my life gets too busy to send a message or a call to someone back right away. Well when you do few days later, they ignore you or just play silent. Trying to punish you for not jumping when they snapped them fingers for you. Then we got those couples that have this one talks and the other holds back everything and talking. So let me see if I get this shit right.. Being silent in a relationship, makes it work better. Fuck I got to try that shit.. Well really I don't want that shit either in my life. Really if you wanna talk to someone, talk. If not go away and don't come back.. Right..maybe sometimes. If it is heated, yah take a break to be silent. But don't ignore for the fact. In reality, show me where that actually works. Especially in a relationship. Myself I don't give a shit, play this immature game and I will just remove you from my life. We are adults, but everyday I hear of this or see it. Yes even happens to me. But what I think people don't understand, it might of worked for first few guys and gals. But after that people see right through it and don't give a shit. Is it a plague out there over it. I don't think so. Just people who think they control the situation with silence are above who they do it to. But all it does it make the other make distant movements away. No one likes a Debbie downer with ignoring and silence. What a fucking joke in reality is what it is. I find it rather amusing watching adults ignore people and play this silent treatment shit. When we are upset with someone at home and play silent. That all just life in ways. But when it is not your wife, hubby or partner. Well then who care's if you are ignored. Walk away right ? not as easy as we all confrontational at most. Most people can't handle being ignored. Myself for one, I either walk away and spoke not a single word to you again ever. Or wanna splatter you all over the wall in a rage. Yup I rage like everyone else when ignored, whether deep inside like a burning flame or outside like a animal. Which is rare.. But this is one of them things in life people know other people will flip their shit over. That is why, some people whether they admit or not. Just do it to control and piss the other off. All other times are either strangers. or your partner ignoring you and if that happens all the time. I can honestly say, there is not much in that relationship anymore. It is a almost plague situation, we all know that every situation needs communication or it is a disaster. But at the same time, ignoring is and can be an even bigger disaster. But as we grow in life, we will always have so many things that get us going.. ©Rudi Jensen