Moving too fast

I can never stress enough to anyone don't sell all your shit when you first meet someone. I strongly believe love can flower and grow from even the most broken heart, the saddest person and make everything flow. But rush relationships are wrong to me. Yes fall in love in days or weeks. But don't be selling your house, selling your vehicles and moving across the country or Provinces to make another happy right away. When we meet someone, we need that time to learn and love. Not just be fogged and strapped down by shady and dumb decisions cause of love. I watch many people sell their homes and move across country only to crumble. Know your partner, know your limits. Now taking on new steps in life is one thing. But to dismantle one's life in mere months for love. Yes it can work, but at most it will shatter everything, fast moves really are not for everyone. When we meet someone and their hooks are is us, we are fogged on decisions in every way. But to me it is a break down process from most people to control the other. I have a friend right now that has sold her car, process of house and moving to another state for a guy she met mere months ago. Whether it is a man doing it or a women. The battles are the same. It is a break down process of control to me, I will never really think different, but again will state it is possible. But at most it is all about control and taking power from one. Too many relationships start and end in the first 3, 6 and 10 months. Know your limits and own strengths and go with your doubts. Some things are just not right and will eat us away over it. Now we can do it, but takes time and patience. And the ability to not be fogged over new love. Just reality we are all so lonely searching for the RIGHT ONE. Well we do not live in a fairy tale world. So not everything will turn our juicy like a peach. Don't give your whole life up over a newbie love. Just saying, float it out and get past the butterflies, desperate loneliness and the comfort part. Then make some drastic decision. Rudi Jensen