Sep. 6, 2020

Broken love and not disconnecting

Listen people I must say, I see and hear of alot of broken hearts daily out there. Both from men and women going on about being broken hearted. Yes it sucks, yes it hurts and yes the toilet paper roll dissipates with each break down. I get that and so do most that have been there, done it and survived. The key words SURVIVED are right there in plain sight. As many of us will never hear another story from someone, because we think our broken heart is the worst. Of course no broken love is measurable in comparison to another of course. But we think that way and will no matter what, because we are the broken one. Now when we break up with someone or move out on someone. There will always be a douche move by another, bragging about a new love or many, how happy they are you are gone and etc. Now again as much as it hurts, get the fack out of here with this crying because they with someone now. Whether it takes a while or takes no time. None of your business now, they are single and you are single. Lets the ducks go in a row and screw them. So now you are gonna tear yourself apart because they rocked some other ass. Dont do it to yourself in anyway and ask yourself a few things....
Does it hurt just as much now as when they were there ?
Do you miss them because you're lonely or because you really miss them ?
Are you willing for to continue ongoing pain to receive ongoing pain again by going back ?
Missing someone because you are used to them in your life is soooo different then missing someone because you still love them dearly. No matter what people need to disconnect when they break up with someone. Screw trying to control them, screw trying to confide, reconnect and etc. You know it is done, accept it and move on. Dont rip your mind and heart apart because of it. When we move away from someone, we need to heal from it, staying around the place the broke you. Be realistic, that shit is gonna rip you apart even more and soon you will make yourself non repairable..
 
Love hurts and minds rip...
Rudi Jensen