Break up season and omg there goes the friendships

It is break up season folks and this is my advice on friendships afterwards.......
First off as adults we know breaks ups, well they happen. It is called part of life. And instead of dwelling you were dumped or dumped someone and regret it. Move on for christ sakes, of course you're hurt, love is love.. But pissing and moaning to everyone and bashing the other over it. No way to heal pissing in your own bed, you will toss and turn in soiled sheets all night. So come on people ADULT UP. Who is the adult when one does it but not the other ?. This is really sad part of break ups is the trying to hold on, savor and cull friendships. Again when we are broken we should worry about the broken before out in the open..As adults we should not be running around all pissed off and dooming what is left for friendships. As we know those will fade with the relationships...or do you know that. Some people dont understand this is life, it is not for hurt or despise of one. Just life, keeping drama and conflict. Most people want to keep that out of their life. So people stepping back from one or the other is so natural. Now when break ups occur of course people are pissed depending of course on situation..Now for those who step off to avoid conflict and drama knowing both suck. But having your friends leaving subsequent messages through others is sad, pathetic and discouraging.Then on top of that it is immature as fuck as adults. Whether we have ties with kids, friends, family or just broken hearts. It only makes the heart take longer to heal. When you cant let go of that feel. When it is over the last thing a broken heart should be thinking, is what friends they are gonna keep. Social media is social media, if you lose a friend off there. Whoop dee doo, it is the friends close that make a difference.
"Dont go chasing trouble with a broken heart, let that life go. What follows you, follows you... "
Find yourself, heal and then worry about friendships. Kinda like dont touch the element til its cool. Rudi Jensen