Disrespecting a family during a passing

Up until recently, I have only heard about it happening and never seen it myself. I can never stress enough the turmoil that goes on after death. The greed and disrespect that flies through the roof. Family members doing all sorts of off the wall behavior. One thing that I think is above all for for greed and selfishness. Is when pictures are cropped from other family members to take out one they dislike. The person they take out is not so much the one disrespected. It is the disrespect dished out to the deaseased. When families are tight and one tries to divide over their hate for another. It is a sad quality to have to be able to do that. I have seen this first hand and had someone burn me into this. Never really hurt me, I just think that if someone cared that much knowing the bonds. That shit show would not of ever happened. Very sad and pathetic to answer people's questions of why you are cropped out of a picture. In my case I was cropped out of a picture that was the last picture of my father before he died and my brother. Very sad and pathetic. But in the end, I just tell them to ask the one who did the disrespectful deed. I guess when it comes to family, some only come around for the drama rather then anything really intended. So like I said I have heard this for years from funeral pictures to wedding pictures. To the greatest of all memories. Really sad for anyone to sink that low to remove a moment like that from anyone's life. Right out selfish thinking. Rudi