Never change for the CROWD

We have the ability in life to do anything in life we almost please. Of course many of these things are a hard task at hand and require assistance or pushing ourselves to the deepest parts of our minds and hearts. We try to fit in, we try to be like everyone else. We in the end create something that is not us searching for a better life and better ways. But for someone else and that is a task on its own. We lose ourselves trying to be on top and survive. At times being so tough taking us out physically and mentally. All while trying to fit in and be like everyone else or to just fit in. Always in the end it was a bad idea to change who we are, were meant to be and etc. We spend many times, months, hours and years trying to master how to create a space where everyone likes us or where we fit in. That being said it is nothing we ever wanna even do partly. As we all have integrity and some dont even know that word. But still carry that and dignity, for me it boils down to both Integrity and dignity. Because as we change more and more to fit in. We break both our integrity and dignity trying to change to fit in. And to be blunt we are not Chameleons in anyway. So why do it, ummm because it is the importance people feel in certain crowds. They need that feeling to rise and stay on top to be what they think is them. Other wise many feel worthless and distraught not being in the " IN " crowd. As everyone always creates in their minds on what they think is the best crowds to be are. But always at most changing who they are and what they are. For that crowd, you create a false pretense on who you really are. That in itself should show you that humans are meant to be them and not acclimatize for the situation. Just saying...©Rudi Jensen